HomeLifestylesArt & CultureModern Victorian Cocktail: History, Family & Balance in a Century-Old Home Laura Jackson Roberts December 13, 2016 4 Of course they did. Just as my generation values honesty, individuality, and personal freedom, the Victorians valued society, and their place in its hierarchy. They were the embodiment of their era in an insulated little valley, and their standing defined them. I find their world confining; they found purpose in their rigid order. And the Jeffers family made it work. Despite the close quarters, they remained together along the National Road for the remainder of their lives. In the 1970’s, my parents moved in and began a generation anew; now, my children are the sixth iteration of Jeffers to dwell here. I’ve found no statistics on the number of American families who have resided in the same three houses for over a century. But I don’t need numbers to tell me what a strange and unique set of circumstances have led me back to this little parcel of land I can’t escape. And, if I am to entertain my growing faith in the universe, I have to concede that perhaps I’m not meant to escape it. Young mothers around me lament the loss of the traditional extended family, and I have the privilege of being a part of this thing for which they grieve. Make no mistake: It is not an idyllic existence. Humans are inescapably human, and families will bump heads and tie knots and dig holes. In no way does proximity make easier the trudge through generational discord. But we’re here, rooted, together. And even in moments of solitude, there is the comforting weight of the past, the same subway tile and doorknobs. The same creak in the fourteenth step on the rear staircase no doubt protested under great-Uncle George’s feet an age ago. My DNA is in the plaster and wood and the smell of the attic. It is also in the flesh and blood around me. I don’t think of our patriarch, great-great grandfather Matthias, very often. His role in my life is limited to a sepia portrait on the wall, and a passing thought when the house settles with an audible crack. There isn’t room in my day for more than a nod to my past. But in quiet moments I occasionally reflect on the microcosm Matthias created. I’m a product of so many lives and so many years. Nature and nurture run parallel in Pleasant Valley. The Jeffers line repeats and changes, it accommodates new input and still produces a familiar result, inasmuch as we are willing to recognize that ancestral thread. I don’t think that a family can recreate history intentionally; I had no intention of following in the footsteps of familial antiquity. Perhaps I stumbled into it; perhaps I was led. Regardless of how I arrived, my presence will define a chapter in this ongoing narrative. And when I am asked, “Why are you still here, in Wheeling?” how do I answer? The answer, simply, is that my path steered me back to this little valley. We cannot predict where our journey will lead. We may choose to change course, to actively seek a new place of being, but I’ve chosen to stay, to breathe in the history and the quiet. I’ve chosen to know this Pleasant Valley, in place and time and person. There are grander futures out there for those who leave, to be certain. We have, in our little northern spire and within the walls of our family home, managed to find balance. The world will not wait for Wheeling, West Virginia, nor will Wheeling be left behind. Here more than ever are we willing to step into these Victorian costumes, to try on the past, and find a way to take it with us when we return to the present. Photos by Laura Jackson Roberts This story originally appeared on Weelunk.com in 2014 Share this:Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pocket (Opens in new window) 4 Responses Abigail Kelly Crummitt December 22, 2016 I am delighted to stumble upon this beautifully written history of a house I have often wondered and daydreamed about. Laura, my parents rented this house from your father and grandfather for 10 or so years in the 1990s. My parents moved back to West Virginia, from Florida, just a few months before I was born in 1989. We lived in the house until 1998, when my dad was transferred down to Parkersburg, WV. Your house was the center of so many nostalgic childhood memories and upon moving back to the area a few years ago, I’d find myself crying every time I drove by thinking of those happy times! As fate would have it, I married a Martins Ferry-boy and am living just a few minutes down the road in Woodsdale. Many times I’ve been tempted to knock on the door and introduce myself. I vividly remember the intricate woodwork throughout your entire house, and the lovely fireplaces essentially in every room! The house was especially beautiful when decorated at Christmastime. I hope that you’ve been able to get the Barbie stickers off of the soaking tub (guilty). As a young child, for some dumb reason, I decided to flush a barrette down the upstairs toilet. My dad made me call your grandfather, Frank, to apologize. I recall him being a very sweet, kind man as I embarrassingly sobbed into the phone. The backyard was enormous and fantastic to play in. I particularly enjoyed when Piper the dog would come to visit from next door. I’ve fantasized about living in this house again someday, but hope that these houses remain in your family for your children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and so on. Thank you so much for sharing! Log in to Reply GL Griffith December 13, 2016 That’s some mighty powerful good writin. Log in to Reply J Wolf December 13, 2016 Nicely written. Where are the pictures? Log in to Reply bill hogan April 17, 2015 Delightful description of family intertwined with structure over generations. Log in to Reply Leave a Reply Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment.